Welcome to NZ Mum Life

NZ Mum Life is a blog dedicated to all the mums out there, navigating the ups and downs of motherhood.

I will share some honest stories from my own personal experiences, which I'm sure will resonate with others, with the aim of providing support and regular reminders that we are not alone in this journey .

After Poppy – When the choice is taken away

3 Oct 2025

Poppy was 19 and a half months old when the first mum from our antenatal group announced her second pregnancy.  While there had been whispers about another early pregnancy, this one was official—and it hit me hard.  Of course, I was happy and excited for her and her family, but with some unexpected sadness too.  Later on, came the realisation that explained this sadness…the choice was effectively never there for me!  The feeling that you lack the freedom to…was quite crushing.

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Sunday Gym Jam

5 Sept 2025

Family trip to the local Gym Jam last Sunday, a chaotic rec centre filled with 1-4 year old, bikes, balls and a bouncy castle.  A great outing for a wet Spring day in Wellington!

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About me

I'm Jennifer but everyone calls me Jen. 

A forty something Mum of my gorgeous girl Poppy born in January 2025, and two fur babies, Luna the Burmese and Frankie the chocolate Lab.  And wife of course too!

My journey to motherhood has been a long one, and I am now fortunate to have Poppy who is rapidly growing into a toddler.

I am currently juggling Mum life, plus a 30 hour a week office job in Wellington, New Zealand.  I very recently found myself interested in sharing my personal experiences and connecting with others.

I hope you find what I have written interesting, please visit my socials and absolutely feel free to connect, I would love to hear from you!

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